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Old Square Meetups: Bringing Back the Coffee, the Backgammon and the Conversation

In every Mediterranean town there is a square, and in every square there is a corner where older people gather. Coffee is ordered slowly. Backgammon dice rattle. Someone is always arriving, someone always leaving, and the conversation never quite ends. At GrandyGo we built a whole programme around that corner, because it turns out to be one of the most valuable things we can offer. We call it Old Square Meetups.

The antidote to the quiet afternoon

Loneliness is not a mood; it is a health risk, linked to decline in memory, mobility and heart health. The hardest hours are often the ordinary ones — the long afternoon with no reason to leave the house. Old Square Meetups fill those hours on purpose, with a standing, low-effort invitation to simply show up and be among people.

  • Daily coffee and tea gatherings on the terrace
  • Backgammon, okey, dominoes and card tournaments
  • Men’s and women’s chat circles, and mixed social clubs
  • Nostalgic music playing in the background, never too loud to talk over

No pressure, no performance

The point of the square is that you do not have to do anything. You can play, or watch, or just sit with your coffee and join in when you feel like it. For someone who has grown shy of company after years alone, that gentle, open door matters more than any organised event. Friendships form at the edges — over a game, a shared memory, a laugh — and they are the friendships that make a place feel like home.

Built into the rhythm of the week

Old Square Meetups are not a one-off; they are part of the daily and weekly rhythm you can see in our yearly programme, and they connect naturally to dozens of other options in our activities catalogue — from music afternoons to day trips into the real squares of nearby towns.

For families, this is often the detail that settles the decision. A parent who was spending days without a real conversation is suddenly part of something — known by name, missed when absent, welcomed back.

Want to see how your parent could find their people here? Book a free call with our English-speaking team.

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